I enjoy swimming, scuba diving, and wine collecting. The wine is stored in a specially constructed wine cellar in the basement of the brown shingle cottage that I share with Eric Allman, my partner of 35-and-some-odd years and husband since 2013. You can learn more about him on his web page.
It was difficult for gay males to have their own kids when we were at an age that we wanted to do so. We adapted to that challenge by helping a few of our friends to raise their kids. This approach worked well from our perspective, because we were guaranteed to have kids whom we liked (and who liked us) - plus we always had their parents to fall back on to deal with the difficult child-rearing issues.
We have four sons the eldest three of whom are shown here. All but Ben are shown with me here. Our four sons are:
We were interviewed, in 2001 by a (now defunct) group that provided resources to gay teenagers. The interview touches on the issues of being involved in raising kids and in the effect of being openly gay in our work places.
I grew up in Wilmington, Delaware. My father lived there until his death in January 2005. My mother died when I was 21; my father later remarried to Ginny and following her death to Emily. I have one brother, Jim, who is dean of the Honor's College at the University of Missouri Kansas City. I also have one sister, Kate, who is Director of Scientific Software at Crescendo Biosciences. The company is a small startup based in South San Francisco working on diagnostics for Rheumatoid Arthritis and other autoimmune diseases. Here is a picture of my brother, father, sister, and me on a wintery day in Wilmington, Delaware.
Here is a presentation that Glyn and I did at Hackers 2007.
In 2004, I flew to the Mojave Airport to witness the second of two flights of Spaceship I into space to win the $10,000,000 X-Prize. See the pictures here.
In 1997, I organized a Grand Canyon trip with nineteen of my friends.